When we first got Sarah in April, she was toilet trained. She never had an accident. In fact she would come tottaly unglued if she had an accident, like she was afraid we would beat her or something! When she got home, she got busy. She also began to relax, and would pee her pants 4 times a day! I decieded not to fight with her. I bought pull up training pants. Sarah basically never used the toliet! Then she began kidergarten. In kidergarten you must use the toiet. So Sarah used the toliet at kidergarten, and pull ups at home. Now, she has decieded to only use panties...her choice. She has come home from the USA and decieded she would be a "big girl"! She has done all this on her own. She has been dry all week. I am very proud of her!